Dear Money Lady Readers,
I recently received a question from someone wondering about debt consolidation in retirement and this reminded me of a talk I did a few years ago on the Honeymoon Phase of Retirement. We all go through this phase when we initially retire. That great moment when you can finally sleep in everyday, no prospecting calls, no angry co-workers, and no demanding bosses. You’re finally free from the rat race, and you welcome the honeymoon stage of retirement with open arms. But did you know that 4 out of 5 retirees today find themselves in debt only 18 months after they’ve retired. They may have walked into retirement with no debt, but after the honeymoon stage, they’re now in it. The problem arises from not planning properly. I know you planned all your way to get to retirement, but failure to plan in retirement can be just as problematic – mentally and financially. Many retirees leave work with no plan and no clear to-do list.
Let’s face it, your professional identity most likely defines you to the outside world. Once you retire, that identity is lost, along with all the people, culture, and community that you were immersed in. So, who are you going to be in retirement? What are you going to do with the next 20-30 years of your life? You must create a new game plan. Fear of being irrelevant and alone has no place in this new phase of your life.
Now I don’t suggest you try to replicate your career by switching to consulting or public speaking, unless you’ve always wanted to. Often this does not work out the way you expect it to. Instead, you need to re-channel your energy into new aspirations, maybe a part-time job you could love, with no stress, (as paid employment or a volunteer endeavour). Most people will need to redefine their identity, so below are some questions to ask yourself before you get started:
● What do you really want to do, and what is meaningful to you now?
● What things haven’t you tried in your life but secretly would like to?
● Where will you live in retirement? Could you divide your time between two locations a year?
● Could you be a mentor to millennials? Could you start a club to meet more like-minded people?
● Have you worked out your financial plan and included travel (even if it’s on a shoe-string budget)?
Pure leisure for most retirees gradually turns into pure boredom, and we’ve seen a new trend of retirees that are having difficulty adjusting. Many overidentified with their careers and now need to remind themselves that they still have value. Remember, there is so much more to experience in this new phase of your life. Why not go back to school, start a small hobby-business, make a plan to leave a meaningful legacy, become a teacher or tour guide, improve your health, take dance lessons, or learn a new skill. Always keep planning your life. I know you’ve done a good job planning to get to retirement, so once there, you must continue that plan to reinvent your life in retirement too.
In fact, this is something I’ll be talking more about this fall during my Vibrant Living Series presentations. Empowerment, financial readiness, and finding meaning after retirement are all major themes we’ll be exploring—because retirement isn’t the end of your story, it’s the start of a whole new one. If you’d like to attend one of my sessions in your community, visit my website to find out where I’ll be speaking next at askthemoneylady.ca
Good Luck and Best Wishes,
Money Lady
Written by Christine Ibbotson, Author, Finance Writer and Syndicated Money Coach on BNN Bloomberg. Christine is also part of the everyday lineup on CTV Your Morning in every province. No AI. Follow Christine on Instagram @askthemoneylady, or on Facebook (Christine Ibbotson).
